I Don’t Know How to Make Peace With My Infertility on HuffPo

By

SadintheCity

– November 13, 2015

Here is my latest piece on Huffington Post!

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/wendy-litner/i-dont-know-how-to-make-peace-with-my-infertility_b_8525700.html

16 Comments

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   Anya

   Posted November 13, 2015 at 5:19 PM

   Sending you positive vibes Wendy!
   Your writing is very touching and I truly believe that you will have a baby one day.

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   ryz

   Posted November 13, 2015 at 5:52 PM

   Hi Wendy! “Mabuhay!” from the Philippines. I chanced upon your blog via The Huffington Post and I must say that your latest post really teared my heart! I’m a mom of one but due to endometriosis, can’t have any more. Although I’m blessed to have had a child, I can feel your pain in your words. I know a couple of close friends from here who are in the same boat as you and I always include them in my prayers. Such good souls to be deprived of children, really! Anyways, I don’t know if this will make a difference but try to search about Sante Barley and its benefits. I’ve said this to my friends here as well once the product was introduced to me. I won’t be giving other info because I want you to discover and learn about it yourself. Maybe it could help. God bless you. 🙂

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   BnB

   Posted November 15, 2015 at 5:00 PM

   I read your (most recent?-I’m too lazy to look) Huff Post piece and had to find your blog. It’s been a while since I’ve read something so brutally honest about infertility.

   I just wanted to say that you’re a badass. You possess levels of tenacity, resiliency, and grit that most women can’t fathom (most can’t fathom infertility either though, so there’s that….). I’m sorry you’ve had to go through this. I can relate to your pain. Infertility is like putting your heart in a blender over, and over, and over again, just for funsies. I’m not one to ride in on a unicorn and blow glitter and sunshine up your ass so I’ll just say this: Your infertility journey may end with a baby (and I really hope it does) or it may not. Either way, you are enough. Only you (and your partner) will know when you have given it your enough and everything, and if you decide to stop, that’s ok.

   I will hold you in my thoughts as you figure out what’s next.

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   @hopeinourheart

   Posted March 30, 2016 at 2:51 AM

   Love your blog hun. So can relate to much of what you say.

   Especially this….

   “My life feels ensnared, caught between desperately wanting to make peace with my infertility and desperately wanting to be a mother. I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if we should keep trying when the odds of success are so low. I don’t know if we should give up on my eggs. I don’t know if I can live through the years-long tumult of adoption, hoping to be blessed with a child we may never get. I don’t know how to hold my husband’s pain, when I am so suffocated by my own, though he’s suffering through the same infertility too. I don’t know what to make for dinner tonight.

   It’s all so exhausting. I’m so exhausted. I want to move on. I want to have a baby.”

   I really feel like i need to make peace and give up, but how do you do that when its all you want!?? Its killing me slowly.